It seems impossible, but every humbled life has cried it is so: The sweetness of living comes to us when the very humanness we regret and try to hide, our seeming flaws and shameful secrets, are worked by time and nature into a honey all their own. Ultimately, it is where we are not perfect—where we are broken and cracked, where the wind whistles through—that is the stuff of transformation.
Mark Nepo, The Book of Awakening, Red Wheel/Weiser Publishers, USA, 2020 Edition, Entry for October 18, p. 343.
MARK NEPO is a poet, teacher, storyteller, and “an eloquent spiritual teacher.” His #1 New York Times bestseller, The Book of Awakening, has inspired readers and seekers worldwide. He has published twenty-two books and recorded fifteen audio projects. In 2015, he received a Life-Achievement Award from AgeNation. In 2016, Watkins: Mind Body Spirit named him one of the 100 Most Spiritually Influential Living People. That same year, OWN also selected him as one of their SuperSoul 100—inspired leaders using their gifts and voices to elevate humanity. In 2017, he became a regular columnist for Spirituality & Health Magazine.
I love Mark’s book of daily reflections. It has been so helpful to me over the years.
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That’s wonderful, Madeline! I only discovered his work recently through Wynne Leon at “Surprised by Joy” https://wynneleon.wordpress.com/
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I love that you are highlighting this book. My favorite meditation book and I love Mark Nepo’s simple but deep wisdom! Beautiful, Rosaliene!
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Wynne, I have to thank you for bringing his book to my attention. His entry for the day has become part of my early morning meditation. Deep wisdom, indeed!
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Oh, I love that! Thanks for sharing that, Rosaliene!
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How good to hear that even my mistakes I frequently make, can turn into something positive! Thanks, Rosaliene, for presenting “The book of awakening”
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My pleasure, Martina. Thanks for reading 🙂
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I once met a lady who had just turned 101 years old. She was amazing. although she was in a wheel chair and very fragile her mind was sharp and I had a delightful conversation with her. She was “honey” indeed!
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Carol, thanks for sharing that pot of honey 🙂
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My pleasure
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Thank you for this encouragement! I have seen glimpses of this honey as I work on forgiving myself. Just the fact that we survive and heal is a start. Then there is more compassion for people who make the same mistakes…. and eventually more compassion for myself.
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JoAnna, that has also been my experience. Forgiving myself, especially my young self, is still a work in progress. Thanks for sharing ❤
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Hi. I’m not sure if this fits in with what he espouses, but I’ll ask it anyway: If a person works very hard at becoming kinder, more considerate, more open, do his/her flaws (anger, impatience, greed, whatever) automatically diminish as a result? I tend to think so.
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Neil, I wish it were the case. I still struggle with negative emotions.
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I think we all do 😕 It goes with being human 🤷♀️💕
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Wow! This looks and reads amazing. Thank you for sharing it with us, Rosaliene.
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My pleasure, Jeff 🙂
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That quote resonates with me, I’ve never read Marks work, I will look him up, thanks Rosaliene
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Kate, I’m glad that Mark’s reflection also resonates with you.
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This sounds like a beautiful book, Rosaliene. I love Nepo’s quote and can say, without hesitation, that it’s true of my life. Perhaps it’s something we can see more clearly through the lens of age and experience. Lovely post.
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Thanks very much, Diana 🙂 It’s true of my life, too.
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Thank you for sharing. Life becomes different when we learn to change the negatives into positives. It will not be easy but we have to do our best.
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So true, Lakshmi. Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts 🙂
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Thank you for sharing!!.. life is a learning process and I think if one ventures down the path of life with a open mind and listens to one’s heart one cannot go wrong… 🙂
“ I am currently attending the School of Life, learning more about the universe and me… and Graduation Day will be the day of my funeral and it is then I will know if I failed or I succeeded and graduated”… (Larry “Dutch” Woller)… 🙂
Until we meet again..
May love and laughter light your days,
and warm your heart and home.
May good and faithful friends be yours,
wherever you may roam.
May peace and plenty bless your world
with joy that long endures.
May all life’s passing seasons
bring the best to you and yours!
(Irish Saying)
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So true, Dutch 🙂 Moreover, it’s a school in which there’s no warning when the next test will be.
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I’m adding it to my must-read list, Rosaliene. Thanks! 🌞
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Me, too!
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That’s great, Crystal! It’s a book of daily reflections. His reflection for October 30: “The Art of Facing Things” is perfect for where you are at this moment in your life. “Sit quietly and meditate on the last time you opened yourself to the life coming at you,” he writes. “Relax and turn the belly of your heart toward the day.” Blessings, my friend ❤
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Thank you for sharing, Rosaliene! Instead of working as hard grading this weekend and preparing for my week, I’ve decided to give my kids a catch-up day tomorrow, which means Tuesday also since I see my classes every other day…and gives me two extra days of personal catch-up this week…and time to “sit quietly and meditate…[and] relax.” Perfect reflection for today!
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My pleasure, Lisa!
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Sounds like a beautiful book on self-acceptance. I used to hate my flaws, but now I embrace them and find out in which situations they are a good thing, such as my stubbornness is good when I need to take charge of a situation. Btw, I heard from the World Economic Forum that Guyana achieved net zero emissions! Congratulations to them!
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Claire, I’m glad that you like Nepo’s reflection on self-acceptance. Guyana may have achieved net zero emissions, but the country is now an important oil producer for ExxonMobil. You can learn more at https://corporate.exxonmobil.com/locations/guyana.
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Oh dear. I figured there was something dark behind the light. Thanks for sharing
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You’re welcome, Claire.
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Beautiful. I love the idea expressed in “worked by time and nature into a honey all their own.”
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Chandra, so glad you love the idea. Thanks for dropping by 🙂
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Seems you can learn a lot just from that subtitle, huh?
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You sure can, Betsy.
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It looks wonderful Rosaliene!
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Thanks, Cindy!
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