With an ongoing global climate crisis, due to humanity’s addiction to fossil fuels, our weather swings from one extreme to the next. Heat domes. Prolonged drought. Rain bombs. Epic floods. We’re not the only ones impacted. So are the trees and plants. Unlike those of us who can find shelter, they must face the elements head-on. Some are resilient and adaptive. Others are not so fortunate.
I’ve observed that the rosebushes in our communal garden are more sensitive to these extremes than my succulent plants. Over the years, we have lost 50 percent of our rosebushes, leaving only eight survivors. The two most recent losses, of the white Hedgerow variety, occurred after the Winter 2022-2023 heavy rains. Grown in an area fully exposed to the elements, their roots sat for three months underwater.
The photo on the left below shows one of them. I haven’t asked the gardener to uproot it in the hope that there may still be some lingering life. The photo on the right is also a white Hedgerow rosebush that stands at the other end of the same exposed plot. After standing for three months in the Winter 2023-2024 floodwater, it’s not doing well. In spring, it’s usually filled with lots of sprawling leaf-laden branches and roses. During our “gray May,” it produced only one tiny rose. I fear that it will not survive another wet winter.


About seven years ago, I undertook to clean up the garden plot of a former neighbor and friend, a food stylist, who had moved back to her home state when her husband Benny took ill with lung cancer. He died months later in January 2016. In March the following year, my best friend and poet also died of lung cancer. Taking care of this plot became part of my grieving process.
After clearing the dense overgrowth of cactus plants, I uncovered the stunted dead trunk and branches of what appeared to be a rosebush. The six-inch tall (15 cm) plant had been smothered by more aggressive plants. For two years I watered it without any sign of life. Then, wonders of wonders, a new branch appeared with tender baby leaves. My care and attention had paid off. The first and single stunning pink rose appeared a year later. Then in 2022, it thanked me with five roses (see photo on the left below). My Miracle Rosebush, as I call it, continued to produce up to six flowers each spring, but I’ve noticed a change in the color and shape, as shown in the photo on the right below. Resilience has its limits as we age.


My former food stylist neighbor planted the captioned fragrant red rosebush. Then just a small potted plant used in one of her photo shoots, it has grown into the hardiest and most luxurious of our rosebushes that keeps on giving. It reminds me of our neighbor Benny who is no longer with us. Healing after loss can come in unexpected ways.
Three other rosebushes also brighten my days with their unique beauty and vibrancy, as pictured below. The two remaining rosebushes are not yet in bloom. Hopefully, with the “gray May” and early “June gloom” now behind us, they will awaken to the summer heat.
The photos below were taken by a neighbor and dear friend who, sad to say, has recently moved out-of-state. In the early spring, I also lost my young gardening enthusiast and companion who moved to another neighborhood, trading her garden space for a dog park and ocean-view. Our lives, like the weather and climate, are continually in motion. I adapt as best as I can and, like the rosebushes, bloom in due season.



Happy Independence Day!

A sound and fascinating post which you have turned into a life metaphor, Rosaliene. Established roses can be extremely resilient.
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Thanks very much, Derrick. It’s good to know about the resilience of established roses. All may not be lost for our seemingly dead white rosebush.
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Some beautiful roses there Rosaliene. We had a soaking spring and the garden was waterlogged, which affected many flowering plants
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Thanks very much, Denzil. Our gardener said the same about seeing less flowering plants in other gardens of his many clients.
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Tending a garden or tending the Earth all starts with caring enough to try. Great story on the resilient rose. Have a great Sunday Rosaliene. Allan
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Thanks very much, Allan. I totally agree: it begins with caring. I’m waiting until 4 p.m. before going outside to tend to my garden. Still too hot for me.
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These are all so beautiful. The weather really has gotten extreme these days, it’s so sad. I wish more people cared about the planet.
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Thanks very much, Pooja. Tragically for humanity, extreme heat will only get worse in the years ahead. I, too, wish more people cared about our planet.
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Thank you, Rosaliene. You are tireless champion of life and beauty in all its forms.
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Thank you very much for your kind comment, Dr. Stein 🙂 ❤
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Some roses can be very resilient, you have beautiful ones. We have hardy ones up here that can withstand our cold winters and give us flowers every summer. Maggie
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Thanks very much, Maggie. I find it amazing that plants can go dormant during the winter and flower again in the spring or summer 🙂
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Beautiful closing lines: “Our lives, like the weather and climate, are continually in motion. I adapt as best as I can and, like the rosebushes, bloom in due season.”
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Thanks very much, Neil 🙂 ❤
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Thanks for sharing your resilient and healing roses, Rosaliene! I can smell them from here.
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My pleasure, Mara 🙂 Isn’t it great how the scent of our favorite roses can stay with us!
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Miracle Rosebush indeed! What a commitment to have watered it for two years… I call that an expression of faith, Rosaliene. It’s truly amazing how resilient nature is, though even its staying power is challenged nowadays as you demonstrate so clearly.
And I too enjoyed your closing line. Thank you for a beautiful post.
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So glad that you enjoyed my post, Steve 🙂 I recall the quote from The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry: “It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important.”
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Nature will find a way! YOU ARE a gardener, dear Rosaliene! 🌹🙋♂️
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Thank you for your kind praise, Ashley! Nature does, indeed, find a way.
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Happy Independence Day to you, Rosaliene, and thank you for this moving piece about nature and our strong ties to it, sometimes inexplicably. 🌹
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My pleasure, Michele 🙂 We’re all inexplicably tied to Mother Earth, but far too many of us have lost that connection.
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So very sad, especially when children are nature deprived.
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Very sad and true, Michele 😦
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The roses are beautiful. Only the hardiest of plants survive in our yard too, but this, thankfully, includes several roses. Yes, the succulents seem to handle all weather conditions well out here, which is great for them.
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Thanks very much, Betsy. I’m glad that your roses are doing well. They’re such a joy to behold, aren’t they?
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And they smell SO good. Store bought roses never smell. They’re so disappointing.
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Such a beautiful post, Rosaliene. Your friendships, the roses, the resiliency, and the passage of time. Tears came to my eyes when you revealed that after two years of faithful watering, that rose came back to life. Truly, the best thing I read today. 💚
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Thank you very much, Tracy ❤ I learned an important lesson that day about finding new life after years of abuse, neglect, or oppression.
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You are a wonderful gardener! We need more caring people to tend to the land, for I believe our energy we put in when we tend goes into the plants and the surrounding ground! I know it sounds woo-hoo, but just look at the difference you made! I too have had roses come back miraculously after a severe pruning due to seemingly stagnant or lack of growth, and I don’t count myself a gifted gardener.
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Thanks for your kind praise, Tamara ❤ I've found that all it takes to become a wonderful gardener is attention and care. I consider my many errors, such as severe pruning, as part of the learning process. It's what I regard as risk-taking.
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While you may minimize what it takes to become a good gardener, most abandon it before the results are seen!
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So true, Tamara. People give up too soon for all kinds of reasons. For me, it has been a long learning process. Lots of plants have died under my care.
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Nice ongoing use of metaphor here.👌
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Thanks very much, Ana 🙂 I’ve found that plants have so much to teach us about life. If only we pay attention.
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Have you read “The Secret Life of Plants”?
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I haven’t, Ana, but I’ve watched all of David Attenborough’s documentary Nature series.
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I haven’t seen that, having been on a media fast much of my adult life, so I don’t know what’s in it. Does he mention that plants can recognize our footsteps coming down the hall, read our thoughts and intentions, and diagnose our illnesses?
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No, he doesn’t, Ana. I’ve come to realize that they respond to our presence, voice, and touch. I haven’t heard about the attributes that you mention.
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You’d enjoy that book. Written in the 1970’s. Pioneering stuff.
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Just like humans who become stronger after experiencing difficulties, these roses are just loveable and belong where they are supposed to belong.
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So very true, Zet Ar! And a little help from a friend goes a long way in that process 🙂
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Your roses are beautiful, Rosaliene. I can understand the challenges of global warming. Just when you switch over to plants requiring less water, the rain will come.
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Thanks very much, Mary 🙂 I’ve planted mostly succulents since I began gardening. The rosebushes, except for the fragrant red rosebush, and several camellia trees were planted years before I moved here.
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Lovely roses, my friend. Life’s changes can be challenging, especially losing friends. And of course, weather extremes affect everything. Sounds like you are coping well. Have a great holiday! ☀️
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Thanks so much, Lisa. Losing friends has been very tough. Always look forward to holidays 😀
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“Healing after loss can come in unexpected ways.” I love that.
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So glad that resonated with you, Crystal 🙂 Gardening has been a blessing in so many ways.
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Oh how I love roses! Such a beautiful post. So many questions can be answered through nature!
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Thanks very much, Belladonna!
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WOW Rosaliene, patience brought forth amazing beauty! 🌺💐🌹 Those succulents are awesome. This evolution says a lot and is a testament about the fabric of life my friend. 💖
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Thanks very much, Kym! 🙂 ❤
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You are so very welcome sistah Rosaliene. My pleasure always! 🥰💖😍
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Thank you for sharing this experience in a way that is powerful and encouraging. That you continued to water the rosebush for two years without any sign of life speaks volumes. The greenhouse that came with our new house was full of mostly dried up, dead plants. The former residents moved out right before we bought the house, but apparently, they could not keep up with the greenhouse and garden. But there are still many succulents and a few plants I have not identified, showing signs of life and being nurtured by my daughter and I. Cheers to the survivors who hang on as long as they can!
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My joy in sharing, JoAnna 🙂 Keeping up with gardening requires not only commitment, but also time and lots of energy. Sometimes, to keep up with the heavy tasks, we may need to hire extra help. Thankfully, we have a gardener who comes in one day weekly to do just that.
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Beautiful reflections about surprising resilience and enduring connections, Ros. 💜
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Thanks very much, Carol ❤
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Lovely tribute to neighbors who passed away and handed the gardening baton to you. Wonderful work with the rescued rose! I sprinkle used coffee grounds as a boost for our roses. They respond well to it.
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Thanks very much, Rebecca! Appreciate the tip about coffee grounds 🙂
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